Last week’s Kpop Academy students’ visit to the residence of the Korean Ambassador to London was very fun as it was informative! It was an honour to be invited to Ambassador Choo’s residence. He made us feel very welcomed and patiently entertained our questions. We learned about Korean food, festive, the Jeol (Korean bow), and even Korean traditional medicine. We got to perform the Jeol in front of him – it turned out that his 60th birthday was coming, so that made the Joel even more meaningful.
Ambassador Choo applying the mugwort medicine.
It is very useful to learn about Korean manners and etiquettes to avoid any faux-pas when visiting Korea. Here I compiled 10 basic Korean etiquettes that I know. I learned most of these out of K-dramas.
1. Remove your shoes when entering the house
Like most Asian cultures, Koreans put great emphasize in keeping the floor sparkling clean, because the floor is used a lot; like lying on the floor while watching TV, or sometimes sitting on the floor to eat. Hence, this is the number one rule you must remember when going to a Korean’s house. You may be required to remove your shoes in some restaurants too. You will be supplied with slippers to use indoor.
2. Wait for the eldest to eat first
Older people are generally respected in other countries too, but in Korea it’s a whole different level! Koreans are really strict with age gap; even a person who’s a year older gain the respect. The younger ones should also grill the meat when eating barbeque dishes. The seating arrangement at the dinner table is also important; the seniors should get the best seats.
3. Pour drinks for each other
Koreans pour drinks for each other. When someone older is offering to pour you a drink, never reject it, and you must always hold the cup with both hands. Don’t want to drink too much because you can’t reject a drink offer? Simple – don’t finish your drink, always keep the cup half empty. It is also customary to drink with your head turned sideways in front of seniors.
4. Never offer anything with the left hand
Always use your right hand to offer and receive something, even though you are left-handed. Best practice is to use both hands.
5. Do not put your chopstick upright on a rice bowl
Please don’t do it because it resembles the incense sticks that are lighted during funerals.
6. Do not write anyone’s name with red inks
Again, this symbolizes that the person is dead, and anything related to death is a sensitive subject to Koreans. You might want to avoid using red pen altogether.
7. Do not blow your nose in front of anyone
Although it doesn’t seem like such a big matter in western countries, blowing your nose in front of people is considered terribly rude in Korea, and most of Asia I believe. Please do it in the washroom.
8. Always refute a compliment
When complimented, reply modestly with (aniyo). Koreans are known for their politeness and humility. Maybe you just wanted to be honest, but if you agree when someone complimented you and added some more good things that you do to add to that compliment, you will come across as arrogant.
9. Never point at someone with your index finger
I guess this one is considered rude everywhere, but especially more so in Korea. Please avoid pointing people (or things) with chopstick as well.
10. Koreans don’t “go Dutch”
If Koreans invite you to a dinner at a restaurant, they will pay for your meal. Don’t insist on splitting the bill, you are expected to pay for the next round too. I personally find this a good concept; everybody’s treating each other in every round. Happy.
Random picture. After going to Ambassador Choo’s house, I suddenly wanted to buy a Hanbok.
Seriously, I really want one. Those expensive custom-made silk ones >.<
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